Ugly Tears? Not Always
Ignore liars who tell you it does not hurt. If you feel pain, it hurts, and you are allowed to cry. God invites those tears so he can comfort you.
Concerns for mature gals
Some topics are heavy like emotional healing or sexual harassment, and these topics are for the older gals.
Never Ashamed
Sometimes we hide our sorrows, weaknesses, and sins from people; our shame tells us others would judge us, because we believe they are perfect. But Satan motivates our shame, and it lies to us. While unkind, unsafe people will judge us, kind Christians will not. They may even suffer from the same weaknesses. While we … Read more Never Ashamed
Not Forsaking the Fellowship
In last week’s post, “When a Child attempts Suicide” I spoke about a friend who decided to NOT take her life, instead choosing friendship and hope over isolation and death. Although she needed counseling too, she opened her heart to the love of friends and this helped her find life, because God made us social … Read more Not Forsaking the Fellowship
When a Child attempts Suicide…… a child witness’s story
How heart breaking to witness someone’s suicide attempt. I was that witness, as a child, and it happened in close succession of three other attempts by children I knew. One was a close relative, another a close friend, and the third a sweet classmate. Two children survived, but one died from the suicide. All three … Read more When a Child attempts Suicide…… a child witness’s story
Offending the Devil
Let’s offend the Devil! Jesus said “I will build my church and the gates of Hell will never prevail against it,” (Matt.16:18b.) Jesus referred to spiritual warfare, but many people don’t realize how much warfare is offensive. Last week, a radio pastor explained that Satan’s “gates of Hell” are not an offensive weapon to attack … Read more Offending the Devil
Hiding from Love?
Having felt close to God before, I thought my busy life, as a new mom (of two year olds at that time) had come between God and my love for him. I told God I wanted to bathe in his love, and I tried to seek him, still thinking my busyness was at fault for … Read more Hiding from Love?
When Christian Phrases Seem Meaningless
Long ago, I pretended to understand people who reassuringly said, “Keep your eyes on God (or on Jesus or on The Father).” But when I struggled with problems, I had no idea how I could keep my eyes on Jesus. Yes, I knew he was required to love me (I did not even understand that … Read more When Christian Phrases Seem Meaningless
Rejoice in Suffering?
Paul said he rejoiced in his suffering, yet when I got bad news last week, I did not rejoice, but instead felt frustrated and guilty. God does not want us to ignore our frustrations but after we feel them, God can help us to look at what he is doing, especially when we do not … Read more Rejoice in Suffering?
God’s Pruning: Giving up the Good to Pursue the Best
Reading John chapter 15, I winced as I thought of how God prunes things out of my life. Yet I know God only takes away things that I do not need, even things I call “good.” Let’s look at how God can take away things we want or think we need, yet God is not … Read more God’s Pruning: Giving up the Good to Pursue the Best
Others can do Everything Better than You? Not Everything!
You can find someone who can do nearly everything better than you, except the most essential skill: being yourself. No one can do a better job of being you than you. Perhaps you don’t mean much to the world, but you mean the world to your loved ones. Despite all their gifting, the wealthiest, prettiest, … Read more Others can do Everything Better than You? Not Everything!