Seeing Myself in Proverbs: Ouch!

As I grow in my Christian faith, God showers me with his love and disciplines my sins, often through Bible verses I read.  The love is a wonderful, easy gift.  The discipline is also a blessing, albeit a painful gift.  God is gentle, so he does not show me every sin at the same time.  … Read more Seeing Myself in Proverbs: Ouch!


Continuing to Forgive (part 3)

I discussed the trouble I had forgiving difficult people in my two last posts “Struggling to Forgive” and “Struggling to Forgive, part two.” I explained my ongoing forgiveness for a person who is now dead.  I needed to get past her faults and understand her hidden pain.  Outwardly she lived a charmed life, but because … Read more Continuing to Forgive (part 3)


Struggling to Forgive, part two

I am expanding last week’s post “Struggling to Forgive.”  I talked about misconceptions (lies or myths about forgiveness) and explained that even when we truly want to forgive, we pay a huge price for the wrongs others did to us.  Those wrongs hurt badly and make forgiving much harder, since it comes at such a … Read more Struggling to Forgive, part two


Fighting False Doctrine, part two

In last week’s post “Deceived by False Doctrine” I discussed some specific false doctrines, about God, that have deceived me and other people.  Whether a church directly teaches errors or people misunderstand the truth and come up with wrong ideas, the false doctrine pulls them away from the true heart of God.  This week I … Read more Fighting False Doctrine, part two


No Such Thing as Toxic Masculinity

Masculinity is not ever toxic; a false idea of masculinity (often in sissy-men who bully others) is the true, toxic problem.  We must never confuse these two groups or blame all men.  Truly masculine men are strong and kind.  Yes, even good men make mistakes, but they take responsibility for their mistakes. True masculinity breeds … Read more No Such Thing as Toxic Masculinity


Doubts Deactivated by the Shield of Faith

I want to expand on Dr. (Pastor) Vernon McGee’s explanation of the shield of faith.  The Holy Spirit showed him how to use it to overcome severe doubts, the kind that plague all of us at times. When he was young, Vernon McGee had a philosophy professor who asked many difficult questions McGee could not … Read more Doubts Deactivated by the Shield of Faith


Misplacing Our Identity in Christ

Our identity in Christ includes many aspects of our life, including our role as women warriors in spiritual warfare.  Be sure to check out last week’s post, “Warriors in Genesis’ Eden,” because I discussed our identity as spiritual warriors in that post.  But I want to discuss several other aspects of our identity in Christ … Read more Misplacing Our Identity in Christ


Forgive and Let God Punish Them

(when they won’t repent) I was dismayed when a radio pastor said that although our world wants to shield the victims, they still have an obligation to forgive their attacker (abuser, oppressor, etc.)  The pastor referred to unrepentant attackers.  I was concerned about the pastor’s tone of voice and the use of the word “obligation,” … Read more Forgive and Let God Punish Them