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Critics say God changes his mind and therefore we cannot trust him. These critics often speak of Bible books like Jonah where God promised punishment but then God did not destroy Nineveh and many other cities like it where people repented. Critics say God does not follow through on his threats. But God spoke through … Read more Does God Change?
We might condemn or judge others because of biases we don’t recognize. I know, because I have wrongly judged people (usually assuming they are arrogant) because of the pain in my life. As a socially awkward child, I was bullied, and I never forgot the pride of the children who looked down on me and … Read more Hidden Bias and Condemning Thoughts
Without surrendering to God’s discipline (through suffering) we cannot fully serve him. Those who resent and resist their suffering deny the glory they could have brought God. Unless we acknowledge that God has a right to discipline us, and we give him thanks during our pain, we waste our suffering and likely prolong it. If … Read more Surrendered Suffering Creates Power to Serve God
While God calls us to forgive others, he does not call us to reconcile with everyone. In fact, God calls us to shun so-called “believers” who continue to hurt us without remorse or repentance (Matt. 18:17.) But what do we do about people who hurt us and do say, “I’m sorry,” but then they hurt … Read more Forgiveness or Detachment?
Even if people do not call you bad names based upon your sins and weaknesses (as I described in last week’s post “Not Your Name,”) they may speak your name with such contempt that you can tell they only see you based upon your past weaknesses or sin. They have come to view your name … Read more Redeemed Name
… past sins don’t identify you The enemy calls us cruel names and identifies us by our sins and weaknesses, while God calls us by our redeemed and esteemed self. When we hear names like Rahab or Thomas, do we call them “Rahab the Prostitute” or “Doubting Thomas”? Let’s look into Scripture and see what … Read more Not Your Name
Women leaders have less written about them in the Bible, despite their significant impact for the Lord. Do you remember Sheerah, a woman hero of the Bible? If not, don’t feel bad. She only shows up in one verse in the genealogies of 1 Chronicles, chapter seven. She is either the daughter or granddaughter of … Read more Sheerah, an Overlooked Female Bible Hero
Primal Deceit In last week’s post, “My sin of Pride,” I discussed wrong ideas I developed, due to traumas in my very early childhood. I never dealt with those traumas so I developed wrong beliefs and then lived them out. This is just one of many ways that cause us to believe lies that will … Read more Why do We Fall for the Same Lies?
I have a problem with pride—not over my accomplishments or possessions, all of which are modest. I have a pride that says, “I am strong. I don’t need help.” I think I am as strong as a mule. But actually I am as stubborn as a mule. I am as frail as a moth. The … Read more My Sin of Pride
In last week’s post, I mentioned an accident I suffered (in a store where I slipped on debris), and I began to think about physical pain people suffer (beyond injuries.) Although I did not cause that accident and pain, I have made mistakes that did cause my own pain. Yet kind people have taught me … Read more Avoiding Physical Pain