Imposter Syndrome…

If people really knew me… Why would we fear rejection and convince ourselves we must hide our weaknesses and flaws? Some people grew up in legalistic and authoritarian homes, like I did, where our performance was valued over the development of our character.  Others may have grown up in competitive and critical homes where only … Read more Imposter Syndrome…


Pursuing Scripture Based upon Your Pain

For a season, consider meditating on Scriptures based upon your pain or trouble, if you are hurting.  While we need to read all Scriptures, sometimes we need Scriptures specifically tailored to our spiritual and emotional wounds (Psalm 147:3, “He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.”)  Specific Scriptures can remind us of God’s … Read more Pursuing Scripture Based upon Your Pain


Hurt by the Church, Not by Jesus

Too many of us have been hurt (abused) in the church, but Jesus did not do it.  Many people turn from God and blame him for what unjust, ungodly humans did. I know, because I was harmed in the church and in a Christian mission. I do not blame Jesus, because he did not condone … Read more Hurt by the Church, Not by Jesus


Same Problem, Different People, part 2

While last week’s post “Same Problem, Different People,” briefly explained why we repeat the same mistakes with different, difficult people, this week we can dig deeper.  If we were mistreated in our youth, we may believe lies, based upon that treatment.  Then we might attract, even pursue, unkind people who mistreat us, especially if we … Read more Same Problem, Different People, part 2


Same Problem, Different People?

Patterns We Didn’t Learn From… When we find ourselves having the same problems with different people (or with God), we might be living out lies we learned in our youth.  We needed love from our family of origin, and if we didn’t get it, we will struggle in our relationships with others and with God. … Read more Same Problem, Different People?


God Subtly Heals Miraculously Today

God still performs miraculous healings, although some changes are subtle like the physical strengthening of Daniel in chapter ten.  Long ago as an angel calmed and strengthened Daniel after terrifying him, and God can reach down and physically alter us today too.  Briefly look at this healing in Daniel 10:19: “Do not be afraid, O … Read more God Subtly Heals Miraculously Today