Inviting Surrogate Prayer to Break Ungodly Soul Ties

Whether through abuse, lustful desires or seduction, some gals (and guys, but I will write this geared for gals), may fall into ungodly relationships and form ungodly soul ties. This term, “soul ties,” means an ungodly bond we have formed, which does not honor God, and which pulls on our soul, harming us. This is … Read more  Inviting Surrogate Prayer to Break Ungodly Soul Ties


Why Memorize Scripture: The No Guilt Approach

I want to share my story about memorizing Scripture.  I invite you to laugh with me and find the surprising encouragement and joy (guilt-free) I found in what I used to think was a boring and difficult spiritual discipline. This year I was reading a book about a parent’s spiritual warfare for her children.  The … Read more Why Memorize Scripture: The No Guilt Approach


Finding Yourself… in the Lord

A conflict exists with some pastors saying, “Don’t try to ‘find yourself,’ because you already have your identity in Christ.”  Yet some people (even Christians) say they need to ‘find themselves,’ because they are still confused about who and what they are. Perhaps these two groups believe they disagree, but instead their definition of “finding … Read more Finding Yourself… in the Lord


How to Find Peace and Joy during Trials: Savoring the Psalms

When I read my Bible cover to cover (Genesis to Revelation), I tended to rush and not really savor these wonderful words.  When I was over half way through Psalms, I felt sad I had so little left to read from this comforting book. This year I decided I would savor the book of Psalms, … Read more How to Find Peace and Joy during Trials: Savoring the Psalms


Not my Mother’s Favorite Child:

Difficult Mother-daughter relationships Were you your mother’s favorite child?  Did you delight her?  Some happy children grow up knowing they delight their mothers.  Often these children have very similar personalities and languages of love, like their mothers.  The mothers of these children understand and easily relate to their offspring. Often these daughters grow up to … Read more Not my Mother’s Favorite Child:


Love Languages: love preferences

             * this post follows 2 others on personality (“No favorite child” and “4 Greek Temperaments”) and builds on those 2 posts. Love Language (love preference) is another area where gals differ from one another (and from men).  When we learn how people express their love differently, we can better meet their needs and have … Read more Love Languages: love preferences


Four Greek temperaments

                              * this post follows one on personality (“No favorite child”) and builds on what I discussed there. The Greeks believed our bodily fluids influenced our temperaments.  While we now know bodily fluids do not influence our temperaments, these four styles are another way for a person to see how she is like others or … Read more Four Greek temperaments