Finding Yourself… in the Lord

A conflict exists with some pastors saying, “Don’t try to ‘find yourself,’ because you already have your identity in Christ.”  Yet some people (even Christians) say they need to ‘find themselves,’ because they are still confused about who and what they are. Perhaps these two groups believe they disagree, but instead their definition of “finding … Read more Finding Yourself… in the Lord


How to Find Peace and Joy during Trials: Savoring the Psalms

When I read my Bible cover to cover (Genesis to Revelation), I tended to rush and not really savor these wonderful words.  When I was over half way through Psalms, I felt sad I had so little left to read from this comforting book. This year I decided I would savor the book of Psalms, … Read more How to Find Peace and Joy during Trials: Savoring the Psalms


                Fire

           Old men sit together and munch on cheese.               It crumbles down their chins and catches in beards.            Soft fire lives within their circle.               They hold onto one another’s elbows                  and watch the young person                 who hurries past and laughs.            They are old fiddles.               Their wood is worn … Read more                 Fire


Not my Mother’s Favorite Child:

Difficult Mother-daughter relationships Were you your mother’s favorite child?  Did you delight her?  Some happy children grow up knowing they delight their mothers.  Often these children have very similar personalities and languages of love, like their mothers.  The mothers of these children understand and easily relate to their offspring. Often these daughters grow up to … Read more Not my Mother’s Favorite Child:


Love Languages: love preferences

             * this post follows 2 others on personality (“No favorite child” and “4 Greek Temperaments”) and builds on those 2 posts. Love Language (love preference) is another area where gals differ from one another (and from men).  When we learn how people express their love differently, we can better meet their needs and have … Read more Love Languages: love preferences